For Jennifer Garner, the best part of raising teenagers is that theyโre cool. โTheyโre just so cool!โ she told Marie Claire UK. And for a lot of parents deep in the teen years, that simple statement feels surprisingly accurate. Teens can be funny, thoughtful, sharp, and way more aware of the world than we give them credit for. Watching that happen in real time is kind of amazing.Garner also talked about how parenting changes as kids get older. โParenting now has shifted. Itโs more about parenting with a button on my mouth,โ she said. That line alone feels like it could be printed on a hoodie for parents of teenagers. You still care just as much, maybe more, but youโre learning when to step back, when to listen, and when to let silence do the work. You donโt get to control everything anymore, and thatโs uncomfortable, but also necessary.What makes her approach feel so relatable is that sheโs not pretending to have it all figured out. Sheโs not chasing perfection or trying to micromanage who her kids become. Instead, she focuses on being proud of how they โwalk through the worldโ and how hard they try. Thatโs something many parents can connect with, especially in a time when teens face so much pressure from school, social media, and constant comparison.Jennifer Garner is mom to 13-year-old Samuel, 16-year-old Seraphina, and 20-year-old Violet, whom she shares with her ex, Ben Affleck. The couple split in 2015 after 10 years of marriage. And despite the spotlight that comes with being a public figure, her parenting perspective feels grounded and real. She talks about her kids as people, not as extensions of herself or her career.Her comments also reflect a modern shift in parenting teens. Itโs less about authority and more about trust. Less lecturing, more observing. Youโre there as a safety net, not a director. And for parents who worry theyโre โdoing it wrongโ because theyโre not in control anymore, Garnerโs words offer some reassurance.At the core, her message is simple: teens donโt need perfect parents. They need parents who notice them, respect their growing independence, and cheer them on as they figure out who they are. Thatโs why her take resonates, it sounds like something a real parent would say, because it is.